Tying the knots

Did you know that it is important to pick an auspicious date to tie the knot (to get married)? One common question which people like to ask is," The auspicious date should goes to ROM (Register of Marriage) or Customary?" In my opinion, which ever comes first. For instance, if you are planning to get registered this year and hold your customary wedding next year. Then in this instance, you should choose an auspicious date for your ROM. However, if you can get another auspicious date for customary date, then that will be a bonus!

I know there are couples that did not pay special attention when come to their ROM date. Some couples would simply pick a date just to mark a certain occasion of their relationship such as their first day of relationship, first time they met or even birthday! Others would choose a date that is easy to remember, like for example 20 Aug 2008, which can be read as 20/08/2008 :- 20082008.

Getting a date without considering the fact whether is auspicious for both married parties could spell disaster in the later of their relationship! Especially in the case when both parties' bazi show signs of clash in their house of spouse. In additional to that, if the chosen date also collided with their bazi (house of spouse). Chances of having a blissful marriage will become slimmer.

So if you are planning to tie the knot soon, my advise is, consult a reputed fengshui master that would advise an auspicious date only after he had look through your bazi and your spouse-to-be bazi.

With that note, I would like to wish those getting married couples, A Happy Marriage! And I would like to take this opportunity to wish my following friends:

1. Chor Lee
2. Hui Ying
3. Jeffery
4. Kalai
5. Paul


Wish you a blissful marriage. Congratulations! Cheers!