Can divorce be avoided?

Is sad to hear someone that you know have decided to divorce. Sometimes, I wonder why is divorce the only option for them? If yes, then the next question I have in mind is, "Why would they together in the first place?" There must be some X-factors that made them to tie the knots, weren't it?

Now assuming that if both parties adopt the "give and take approach", can divorce be avoided? Or it has been heaven's will to destined one loving couple to go separate ways, that there is no way that one can avoid this calamity?

In my own humble opinion, I feel that adopting the "give and take approach" should be able to help, if only you know your bazi well. Let me quote you one example, if a bazi has clashes in the house of spouse in this ten year luck cycle, or also known as Da Yun 大运. Then one should learn to be tolerance towards his loved one. If the person did not adopt the "give and take approach", then chances of separation would be much higher.

Therefore, having bazi analysed before tying the knots is not a bad thing after all, because one can avoid unhappiness in the later part of the marriage life. In my next article, I will share with you what are the things that one can do to avoid separation if bazi shows sign of relationship problem .