Things that you can do, if bazi shows signs of relationship problem

Yesterday, I wrote an article on "Can divorce be avoided?" Today, I will share with you what are things that one can do, if bazi shows sign of relationship problem.

In my research, usually bazi shows signs of relationship problem are as follows:

1. Clashed in bazi configuration, house of spouse is clashed.

2. House of spouse clash with ten year luck cycle, Da Yun 大运.

3. House of spouse has Void, Kong Wang 空亡.

4. House of spouse Fu Yin 伏吟 with Da Yun 大运 (Ten year luck cycle) , or Liu Nian 流年 (Yearly pillar). - Fu Yin denotes that pillar is a repetition.

5. Yin Yang Sha 阴阳煞. Negative and positive (bad energy) - Standard configuration.

6. Too many earth in the earthly branches (This apply for ladies' bazi only) - All earth in Earthly Branches

Above are the common pointers, which are easy to spot-on. These pointers are usually an indication of potential relationship problem. Apart from those, there are other factors which a master can look out for. Those additional factors, I will not go into details, as it will be too complicated for readers without any bazi knowledge to understand.

So what can one do if bazi has one of the above-mentioned pointers? Is separation the only way out? Not necessary true, if only both parties are willingly to learn and adopt "give and take approach".

"Give and take approach" refers to one is willingly to give more love and take whatever unreasonable demands. I know is easier to say than to be done but this is the basic fundamental which one has to cultivate in order to enjoy a blissful relationship.

Depending on how "severe" the bazi is, if a person has a clashed configuration bazi, the best solution will be adopting the "give and take approach".

If bazi clashes with ten year luck cycle (Da Yun) or yearly pillar (Liu Nian), if one is still not married but is planning to do so soon. Is better to postpone the wedding till the clash is over. Alternatively, you can consult a master to select an auspicious date to wed if wedding cannot be postpone. Oh yes, getting your house fengshui-ed may help too!

If a bazi falls in any of the above, there is another option which may sound ridiculous to you, and some of you may strongly disagree with my suggestion. The option is to cohabit instead of having your relationship recognised legally by law! For your information, personally I have witnessed one such true case, which work perfectly well for both parties!